Why Are So Many Girls Lesbian or Bisexual?

Why is it OK for girls to be bisexual or homosexual, but not boys?

Over the past seven years, I’ve posed this question to hundreds of teenagers and young adults across the United States. The most common answer I get isn’t really an answer. “Girls kiss other girls at parties because guys like it,” one teenage girl told me. “It makes the guys hoot and holler, so the girls do it again. They’re just doing it for attention. It’s not for real.”

Female sexuality is different from male sexuality. If a straight boy kissed another boy, perhaps to amuse some girls who might be watching, he would be unlikely to undergo a change in sexual orientation as a result. But, as Professor Roy Baumeister at Florida State University and others have shown, sexual attraction in many women seems to be more malleable (see note 3 below). If a teenage girl kisses another teenage girl, for whatever reason, and she finds that she likes it – then things can happen, and things can change. If a young woman finds her soulmate, and her soulmate happens to be female, then she may begin to experience feelings she’s never felt before.

Especially if all the guys she knows are losers.

Which brings me to the second point I’ve encountered in my interviews with young people. Twenty years ago, when I opened my practice in a suburb of Washington DC, it was rare to find 14-year-old boys who were looking at pornography every day. Today it’s common, in fact it’s becoming the norm. When I meet with a group of 14-year-old boys and I ask them, “how many of you guys subscribe to a porn site like fuckvideos xxx?”, all hands go up. I don’t believe them. But today, no boy wants to admit that he’s the weirdo who doesn’t look at online porn. Twenty years ago, hardcore pornography was tucked away in adult bookstores. Continue reading here.

Watch these two hot women prove their good taste to a bartender.