Less Felatio More Cunnilingus

If you are a lesbian with a sexually satisfied partner, thank you for the visit, but you are free to go elsewhere. There’s probably not much you can gain from this article that you don’t already know. As one woman explains, “When two women bump junk, the chance of oral sex being involved is high.” A study published by the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that lesbian women are significantly more likely to experience orgasm than their heterosexual counterparts.

That can be teased out in a few different ways. Lesbian women are members of a lucky minority that get to ditch gender expectations of pleasure and performance often associated with traditional intercourse. They’re also incredibly well-versed in the female body and its orgasmic intricacies. My guess is that most of them are unsurprised by the fact that nearly 70 percent of women require direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and it seems likely that many look to the tongue as a useful means of delivering it.

Back in 2014, vlogger Arielle Scarcella decided to ask 500 of her straight-identifying female viewers and 500 lesbian viewers whether they preferred oral sex to penetration. Fifty-five percent of straight women preferred penetration. Just 25 percent of lesbian viewers agreed. In her analysis, Scarcella says, “Straight women are very uncomfortable with the idea of receiving sexual pleasure without giving it at the same time.”

According to the Kinsey Institute, heterosexual women are more likely to be nearly always or always orgasmic when alone than with a partner. When in a partnered environment, women seem much more likely to orgasm when they engage in a variety of sex acts, like oral sex. Men, on the other hand, don’t typically have a problem achieving orgasm through penetrative sex alone. When we apply that information to the fact that the average American woman has about one orgasm for every three a man experiences, it seems like something’s not adding up. Or rather, that certain someones aren’t going down. Continue reading here.

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