HBB (Hot Bisexual Babes) AKA Unicorns

Here’s another great article about “New Threesome App 3nder”. Enjoy reading!

As someone who is sexually curious, I’m no stranger to threesomes. When the chemistry is right and the stars align threesomes are one of the great joys of life. I love them. I’ve been the third in dozens of MFF (male/female/female) threesomes with couples and friends and recently played sister-wife for six weeks with a married couple in an open marriage.

All of these scenarios occurred organically, so when I recently discovered 3nder (pronounced Thrinder)—the new dating app described as “Tinder for threesomes”—I was intrigued, and naturally I had many, many questions. How does this even work? Are people actually using it? Is a threesome arranged via an app still a thrill? I set up my profile, specifically looking for couples, and I was off and swiping.

WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE

I say this coming from the most loving and non-judgmental place: It’s a total shit show out there. The couples ranged from young millennials looking to experiment to newlyweds (already!?!), to couples in “open” relationships (I’ll address the quotes later), to old, leathery swingers. Oh, and of course, Burning Man. There are a lot of Burning Man couples on 3nder.

Being that I’m single and primarily interested in a MFF (male/female/female) threesome, in the poly/open world this makes me the mythical “Unicorn.”

According to Urban Dictionary a Unicorn or Unicorns are: “Colloquial; Synonym for hot bi babe or HBB, often derogatory, condescending, or ironic. A bisexual person, usually though not always female, who is willing to join an existing couple, often with the presumption that this person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.”

Sounds about right. As a self-proclaimed Commitmentphobe this kind of loose dynamic is perfect for me in theory. I matched with 54 couples, all of whom were searching for the elusive Unicorn. Apparently we are as rare as one would think, and my dance card was full almost immediately. Continue reading here.

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