Here’s what to know. Recently, Janelle Monae came out as pansexual, telling Rolling Stone that: “Being a queer black woman in America, someone who has been in relationships with both men and women – I consider myself to be a free-ass motherfucker.” Monae elaborated that she used to identify as bisexual, but “then later I […]

THREESOMES AREN’T MANDATORY. In this week’s Sex Talk Realness, four anonymous women get real about what it’s really like to be a bisexual female in this day and age. How old are you? Woman A: Twenty-eight. Woman B: Twenty-one. Woman C: Twenty-two. Woman D: Nineteen. When did you start to identify as bi? Woman A: […]

A recent study showed that lesbians have more orgasms than straight and bisexual women. Here’s how to narrow the gap. A recent study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that what you always thought was just your queer friends bragging is, in fact, verifiably true: Lesbians are having more orgasms than straight and […]

No, she’s not just “going through a phase.” 1. Yes, she’s really bisexual. You wouldn’t keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was “really” straight, right? Yeah, it’s just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. 2. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique […]

ICYMI: Straight-identified women hook up with women, too. There are lots of cultural narratives about same-sex attraction. Sometimes they contradict each other. For example, when it comes to women, there’s the porn trope that women, even straight women, are always down to hook up with each other, like when they’re bored and there’s no man […]

It’s not always easy being bisexual. Between stereotypes of oversexed, unfaithful bisexuals and social pressure to “pick a side,” not to mention the fact that bi people are more likely to be closeted and face higher rates of depression, drug and alcohol abuse, and intimate partner violence, coming out as bisexual can be enormously challenging. […]

1. Yes, you need a condom. Are you going to get pregnant from putting your mouth on her vag? No, but that doesn’t mean you can’t catch STDs from getting and giving oral sex. Seriously, more people need to know this fact. And also how to use dental dams. They seem tricky but are very […]

I just found another great article from Huffingtonpost that I think you guys would be interested to read… So, here you go 🙂 People often feel comfortable asking questions about lesbian sex. It happens everywhere from cocktail parties to riding around in New York City taxis. As a sex-positive person and porn mogul similar to […]

Here are some things you should know before dating a bisexual woman: 1. Yes, she’s really bisexual. You wouldn’t keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was “really” straight, right? Yeah, it’s just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. 2. And on top of annoying questions, she […]

Four anonymous women get real about what it’s really like to be a bisexual female in this day and age. How old are you? Woman A: Twenty-eight. Woman B: Twenty-one. Woman C: Twenty-two. Woman D: Nineteen. When did you start to identify as bi? Woman A: I had my first sexual experience when I was […]