The 5 Best Sex Positions For Female Orgasm

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?

Let’s jump right into five lesbian-specific sex positions, with an emphasis on letting one partner do the receiving! Most of these sex positions can work for women who have sex with women. Some of them necessitate strap-on usage (which not all women enjoy) but Sideways Straddle can be a lot of fun without a dildo. So here you go…

1. Reclining

How to do it: Lie down on your back, propped up with some pillows. Put your feet flat on the bed. Your partner can crawl between your legs and focus all her attention on you.

This position works well for almost any activity you can think of. Your partner can sit between your legs and finger you, or she can lay down on her stomach and go down on you. She can also use a vibrator on your clitoris or inside of you. Or she can don a strap-on and go for good ol’ missionary.

Why it works: This is the easiest position for relaxing and receiving. All you have to do is get comfortable, lay back, and enjoy the attention!

Variations to try: This is such a simple position, but there are lots of ways you can adjust to find what works for you. You can try putting pillows under your hips or back to change the angle of your body. Try pulling your legs further apart or closer together. Or try resting one leg on your partner’s shoulder. She can easily take a break from focusing on you to come up for kisses or to pay attention to your breasts.

2. Spooning

How to do it: Have both of you lay on your sides, facing the same direction. Your lady can wrap her arm around your waist and finger your clitoris. Or she can scoot her arm under your top leg and touch you from behind. This is also a great position for some anal play with fingers or a toy. And of course, it’s a fun one if you’re using a strap-on.

Why it works: Since you’re the little spoon, there’s not much for you to do besides lap up the attention. Some women need to have their legs closed tightly together in order to reach orgasm, and this position allows you to get your muscles nice and tense.

Variations to try: This position is all about finding the most enjoyable angle for you and the easiest reach for her. If you’re of differing heights, you may need to scoot around a bit to help her reach. You may want to try bending forward at the hip to give her better access from the back. Or you can try turning partially onto your back or stomach. You can also raise one leg in the air, and have either her or you hold on to it, or wrap it around her legs. Continue reading here.

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